Marriage advice for men - men and women tend to see things differently. Advice needs to be given differently for men than it is for women. This article is meant to help you find your way to having a happy marriage again.
Before I start, please know that you are not alone. A lot of men, at one point in time or another, fear that their marriage is falling apart. The only way you are going to ease this fear is by finding out what is wrong, and learning to fix it. In order to do THAT, though, you are going to have to find it within yourself to break free from the stereotype that society has made for men.
You are going to have to learn how to show your wife your true emotions. This includes sadness and fear. You are NOT less of a man if you show your true emotions! In fact, that may be just how you will be able to save your marriage!
Women think differently than men. Words, especially in times of arguments and high emotions, mean very little to women. It is the ACTION that men take that really makes women see that men are honestly trying. As a wife myself, I can honestly tell you that the words 'but I love you', and 'I'm sorry', and 'I know' mean absolutely nothing to me anymore. It is what my husband DOES to PROVE that he loves me, he is sorry, and that he understands what I'm feeling.
Society is hard on men. I do understand that. But you have to make a decision right now. Who do you want to please more - society? Or your wife? Your wife NEEDS you to be open with her.
She NEEDS you to SHOW her that you do, indeed, love her. By learning how to freely show your true emotions to your wife, you will open up new doors in your #marriage. You will feel so much better, and you will know that SHE feels better, because you will see it every time you look at her!